Moving is a big change for anyone, but for kids, it can feel overwhelming. Whether you’re relocating within South Jersey or moving from Philly to the suburbs, helping your children adjust to the transition is just as important as packing the moving truck. Here’s how to make the moving process easier for your family and ensure a smooth, stress-free transition.
1. Talk About the Move Early
Kids thrive on routine, and a move can feel like a major disruption. Ease their anxiety by talking about the move as soon as possible. Explain why you’re moving, what to expect, and answer any questions they have. If possible, show them pictures of the new home or take them on a visit to explore the new neighborhood.
2. Get Them Involved
Giving kids some control over small decisions can help them feel more comfortable with the move. Let them:
- Choose the color of their new bedroom walls.
- Pack a special “moving day” bag with their favorite toys.
- Help decorate or arrange furniture in their new space.
3. Stick to Routines
Keeping familiar routines in place—such as bedtime, mealtimes, and family traditions—can provide comfort during the transition. If your child is used to a bedtime story or a favorite breakfast, try to maintain those habits even during the busiest moving days.
4. Pack a ‘Moving Day’ Survival Kit
Moving day can be long, so having a dedicated bag of essentials for your kids can make things easier. Pack:
✅ Favorite stuffed animals or comfort items
✅ Snacks and drinks
✅ Extra clothes
✅ Diapers and wipes (for younger kids)
✅ A tablet, books, or coloring supplies for entertainment
5. Make the Move an Adventure
Turn the move into a fun experience rather than a stressful event. Consider:
- Making a scavenger hunt: Create a list of things to find in the new house or neighborhood.
- Letting kids decorate moving boxes: Give them markers or stickers to personalize their boxes.
- Celebrating move-in day: Have a pizza night or special treat once everything is unloaded.
6. Help Them Say Goodbye
Leaving behind friends, neighbors, and even a familiar home can be emotional. Help your kids say goodbye by:
- Throwing a small goodbye party with friends.
- Making a memory book with photos of their favorite places.
- Exchanging addresses or setting up video calls with close friends.
7. Get to Know the New Neighborhood
Once you arrive, explore your new community together. Visit parks, ice cream shops, or libraries in South Jersey to help them feel at home. If school is in session, see if you can arrange a visit before their first day to ease first-day jitters.
8. Be Patient with the Adjustment Period
Even if the move is exciting, kids may still need time to adjust. Expect a mix of emotions—excitement, sadness, and even frustration. Listen to their concerns, reassure them, and give them time to settle in.
Let Us Handle the Heavy Lifting While You Focus on Your Family
Moving with kids doesn’t have to be stressful. With a little planning and patience, your family can settle into your new South Jersey home smoothly. Let us take care of the logistics so you can focus on making the transition easy for your children. Contact us today for a free moving estimate!
